Your heart asks for one concrete thing and the imagination softens the edges until you cannot remember what you asked for. The Moon squares Neptune, the sharp need wearing crosswise against a tenderness that washes every border away. Ask plainly and you cringe at being so literal. Dissolve into someone else's pain and you stand there with no feet of your own. It cost you relationships where you cared so hard you lost track of what you needed. The grind drew the line between compassion and vanishing. Caring well takes a whole self to do the caring. You kept your own outline without letting your tenderness go hard.