A kiss from you costs the other person something, and it costs you something back, and the name of that cost is presence. Pluto and Venus share the same degree in your chart, so the depth and the loving are one bond: you do not love at half. It is the whole of you across the threshold or you stay outside the door. That is why your relationships are either few and long or brief and impossible to forget. What you learn is to tell the intensity that transforms from the intensity that only burns the fuel. Not everything deep is good for you. Sometimes deep is just a pit. You feel the difference on the way out: one left you built, the other left a hole.