Your way of loving has no lukewarm setting, and a part of you longs to just enjoy someone without the bond having to tear you apart and rebuild you. Pluto sits opposite Venus in your chart, the love that transforms and the affection that simply walks beside you. Sink all the way into a bond and a verdict drops on you for the heat. Stay up on the surface and you feel like a fraud. So your stories carry chapters of total merging and chapters of distance where you crawl back from your own surrender. Stop grading a love by how deep it dragged you under. Some bonds love you by walking the shore in the light. That is love too.